Life just is. . .

Life just is. . . life is complicated, scary, amazing, frustrating, life just is all of these things and so much more. . . Everybodies life is different, everybodies life is normal, everybody is somebody, and just being somebody is great!

I am somebody, You are somebody, The girl you saw walking down main street two weeks ago that you don't remember seeing is somebody, you may not know what kind of somebody they are but they are somebody, somebodies sister, daughter, mother, aunt, cousin, grandmother, friend, teacher, partner, it doesn't matter they were, they are somebody as are you and me!

Everybodies life is normal, normal yes i said normal, and if you question that this is what i mean. . . normal is what you make it, normal is what you are used to, normal is whatever anybody wants normal to be, because to you, and to me they may not seem normal but to them, to their lifestyle they are normal and who are we, who is anybody to judge normal, because honestly to those people that may be judged and questioned about how normal they are, we may not be normal, we may be weird, strange, or even out of the ordinary?

Honestly who is to judge anybody on anything, the color of there skin, whether there male or female, and my biggest is the sexual orientation of others. Who somebody is with is nobody elses business, the only difference between a straight relationship and one between two men or two women is what happens behind the bedroom doors and it nobody elses business. I am dying for an answer to this question of mine, " Why do a bunch of straight men, and women, or anybody for the matter get to vote whether or not a gay/lesbian couple can get married, did they get to vote whether the straight couple should have that opportunity?" don't get me wrong i don't oppose straight couples i just don't see why they get more rights then everybody else, and "If there is freedom of religion why do they base what marriage is about on what the bible says?" Anyway enough of me babbling on about that lets find something else. . .

Alright here we go, i guess with this being my first blog i should tell you about myself well more or less how i see myself!

• I make sense to me, and that is the only person i need to make sense to
• I am honest
• I choose to do what i believe is best not necessarily what turns out to be the best
• I care about others more then i care about myself, and my feelings
• I am outgoing
• I am up for anything
• I would do anything for anyone if they needed me, even take a bullet for my worst enemy
• I am a lesbian
• I am very emotional
• I am starting to love myself more fully but its a pcocess
• I love meeting new people
• I am who i am, i don't change for anyone
• I avoid judging people because i don't want people judging me
• I have no idea what i want to do with the rest of my life, but that will come with time
• I know i will be great one day, and i'll be ready when that day comes
• I believe life just is. . . it just is how it will be

The world keeps spinning no matter what happened to you, no matter who's life was tragically taken, no matter where you are or what your doing, the world is always spinning. There is no need in worrying about anything you cannot control, it won't change it. Life just is. . . it is how you make it, or in some cases how you don't. Just be true, honest and real to yourself, do your best, try your hardest, and you'll never have to regret anything.

All is fair in love and war, all unfair in life!

Thanks A-Rae